fuck.

he keep harping on whether we are the ones who follow him or he's following us, questioning us where is his authority

how fucked up can you get?

its because we are the ones who are following you that we dont want to be lead to the wrong direction. or suffer for your actions.

like seriously, at which era are you living at?

nowadays, followers have the right to object, especially if the leader is not doing smth that is right.

like imagine, singapore is somewhat governed by PAP. if PAP were to do smth wrong, say only chinese ministers allowed, surely the other races are gonna react.

what i mean is, for all actions, expect some reactions. and no, im not talking bout newton's 3rd law.

everybody have their own interest at heart. so it is normal for them to voice out. be it supporting you or objecting you.

if you, as a leader, refuse to consider concerns, do you think we followers will still want to follow you?

please la, put yourself in our shoes can?

a leader is given a responsibility, not a right to do whatever he feels is right.

as a leader, the effect of your actions will be felt by your followers.

cant you at least get that right??

by the way, you are no longer a leader to kids.

we are all adults, for goodness sake!

and by the way, as the malay saying goes, the older generations are the ones who ate more salt is JUST a saying. yes older people is more experience. but the context now is different.

oh, you eat too much salt, you'll get hypertension.

its funny how they always watch those info-ed shows about communication in family, agreeing to the methods shown, cited examples from the relatives and yet they too commit the same mistakes.

have you ever reflect what you say or do?

do you ever think?

i am very very sure i still am the mouth for you to feed.

as of now, i am utterly disappointed that you do not even care.

where is the fianancial support, mental support and emotional support that im supposed to get?

but still, what you are doing now is to chuck me one corner, and yet expect me to contribute?

dont you dare say im not repaying the contributions you make when i was younger.

sigh, its really no use saying all these to you.

as if you care...

im so disappointed in you that i am ashamed to share this problem of mine with my friends.

you suck!